So, I recently came across a PSA regarding… well, me. I would like to go on public record and state that the accusations in there are inaccurate, and explain why the poster is not to be trusted, has sexually harassed multiple people, and is a liar. Everything below is verifiable by people who actually know me. IF YOU HAVE FRIENDS IN THE MSPA FANDOM, REBLOG THIS.
To begin with, the claim about me experimenting with nootropics and my consequent depression is, admittedly, true. What he decided to leave out is that I have been receiving treatment. Another member of the group who was study neuroscience on university made the connection and hypothesised that it was a lack of endorphins, based on the specific nootropic I was experimenting with (for clarification – nootropics are designed to improve your mental capacity by acting on the brain itself).
The next point is about me going for a job interview In her city and asking if one of the members wanted to meet up – these facts are true. However, I did not attempt to “weasel” my way back in to the group – merely apologised for some of my behaviour towards the person, and continued talking to her afterwards. I DID, in fact, have a job interview over there. I also did not ask more than once if she was interested in meeting up, and she chose the location. The comments afterwards about me being allowed to “continue to make amends” I can’t comment on, as for several months afterwards I didn’t talk to anyone in the group that I can recall, and if they were “allowing” her to continue to talk to me then that says something about this guys character.
“He would constantly complain about a job that was handed to him.” False. I complained a few times yes, mainly over the fact that I wasn’t receiving the training I’d been promised despite asking for it. “He was also incredibly jealous and petty, pressuring his girlfriend, my long-time RP partner, to break communication with me over jealousy and mistrust, due to the fact that I had feelings for her at one point.” is also incorrect. The reason I asked her to break contact was because she told me that he’d been pressuring her to ERP when she was saying no. In other words, sexual harrassment.
As for the accusations of me stealing all his RP stuff… well, he apparently forgot to mention he co-founded the other group after getting tired with RFT and everyone agreed to just use what already existed since it was a reboot of that universe. So yeah, nice one there Zem.
Now, onto the important bit.
After I called him out for sexually harassing my ex, he started a vendetta against me, this post being the most obvious sign. He took over memos he had no claim to – notably #team_lazer_maids – specifically to ban me from them, and banned me from every other memo he ran as well (an interesting thing to note is he only knew about that memo from running a whois on either me, or my girlfriend – he was not invited) - #reddit, #reddit_underground, and the RFT memos. Thankfully most people in the friendship group know well enough that the shit he was spouting was a lie, and have messaged me in private saying as such. Since then, he came into the #Overseer memo a few times in an attempt to spy on me.
It since came out that he tried to sexually harass ANOTHER under-age girl on Pesterchum, and they reported it to the administrator of the service. I helped her report him, giving my own experiences. He was temporarily K-Lined (permanently banned) before somehow weaselling his way back onto the service by claiming the logs were fake. I didn’t send any logs, but other victims did. Apparently, me not being a victim was a good enough reason for ghostDunk to give Zem my identity (thanks for that, GD), so I’ve been having further harassment since.
I’ve since stepped down as server administrator for The Overseer Project. His post has resulted in people finding my physical address and sending mail to it. Due to this, and the post containing verifiable false facts (in other words, libel) and his constant harassment, I’m currently pursuing legal options, with the support of Tumblr’s administration team.
IN SHORT, ZEMEDELPHOS IS A KNOWN SEXUAL PREDATOR, A LIAR, AND DOESN’T LET GO OF VENDETTAS EASILY. His tumblr blog is “zemedelphos”, formerly “butwhatsnottolove”. He is a known stalker, updating his post about me frequently with any new rooms I visit. His other handles include cardiacAtrophy, cachetedApathy, elSiem, riversPharaoh, BUT HE INVENTS NEW ONES FREQUENTLY. I have MULTIPLE character witnesses that agree he’s not the best person to be around, and, from what I’m told, has been parading the fact that he’s “beaten” me since he got unbanned from Pesterchum.
Since ghostDunk’s lack of oversight puts more people at risk, please, be careful on Pesterchum and elsewhere in the MSPA fandom. He’s going to see this since he stalks my blog, but since his post has been up for months and I didn’t find it because it wasn’t tagged, I’m not tagging this either. Please reblog this for peoples safety.
Stay safe everyone.
The main problem I have with Men’s Rights Activists is that their name really doesn’t do them justice. They’re Straight Cis White Men’s Rights Activists. I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists campaign for the inclusion of trans* men in their spaces.
I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists campaign to end the social stigma around black fatherhood. I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists campaign for better pay and equal career mobility for men of colour. I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists actively campaign for more gay men’s rights. I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists advise others in their group on how using f*ggot to emasculate men who aren’t part of their cause is alienating and marginalising other MEN.
I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists campaign, raise awareness of, or support victims of male rape unless it’s in order to derail a discussion around female victims of rape. I have NEVER seen Men’s Rights Activists campaign, raise awareness of, or support male victims of domestic abuse unless it’s in order to derail a discussion around female victims of domestic abuse. Men’s Rights Activists are hypocrites and frauds.
They’re bitter privileged white men who don’t want to campaign for the rights of men — they want to campaign to keep their privilege unchecked and their ability to discriminate against others. If you want to be a real Men’s Rights Activist — be a fucking (intersectional) Feminist. Peace out.